So often we hear others as well as ourselves say “I love _____”. We say it about food and clothes, about brands and styles. We say it in the same manner about people we don’t even know such as towards talk show hosts, artists, and designers. When placed in context with our most favored hobbies and self-symbols, the term “Love” is nearly as respected as if it is almost beside the love we hold for the people and relationships which are most important to us. Considering this, it would seem to a third-party of life that love is a common-felt. The term in particular ought to also come across as easily applicable.
It is not arguable however, that the effect of the word “love” should come first as a feeling and as a result be considered a noun. In the broad context that we use the word, one might think it was the other way around, and that “love” was a simple and practical noun in terms of language.
The flippant use of a word alone can be deceiving to the interpreter, and I believe that it can likewise become eventually confusing to the user or the person who is supposedly experiencing the emotion of love. I believe we now may have faced ourselves with a social issue on the matter. Unless there was a disruption in the variation of our use of the word which placed it back within its primitive confines, we may need a new word to take the place of the old which used to define a most sacred liking and near obsession for passionate pursuits of great importance. As this is not extremely convenient, we may alternatively choose by free will and rather not by laws of the English literary bounds to utilize slightly more historical words which were the origins and the first expressers of the feeling. The most popular of those are from the Greek language. I have examined those Greek words –as there are several from the Greek language which define love— and they are: agape, eros, philia, and storge. The intent of there being more than one of these is to compartmentalize the variations of the single, general feeling. This way, they may be more specific and better define that which is being specified, without confusion.
The Greek word for love which represents affectionate and typically lustful love is Eros. It is the love which is motivated by physical attraction, it is felt between people, and is greater than Philia. To me the most interesting philosophy on what could be meant by Eros, is that which was thought by Plato in his theory of Platonic Love. He believed in a parallel which is assumed between divinity and the intimate love of humans. Divine love in his definition, has first to be sought before the love of humans can exist with sincerity. At this point, it is Eros love.
Love with the divine is Agape love, as Agape is the greatest expression for love. However, in this deep state, it can be felt toward humans and by humans of any relation. Storge, is the love had between family members. It is naturally present, non-sexual, and present with long suffering. This third form of love described by the Greek language is contained within this final form and is therefore miniscule to the broader Philia. Brotherly love or loyalty, is what defines Philia. Inclusive of any form of enjoyment whether towards things or people, Philia is the most general of them all.
As the diversifying theme in these terms is not a present amenity in English, I think the best thing we could do is be careful to protect the term love which –with respect— quite remarkably may be distinguished by a medley of applications. The English love does not have a hierarchy. It’s greatest significance is indeed very great. More than a feeling or emotion, it is the swathe for life.