So many dynamics there are to human society. All talents, abilities, mental states, perspectives are scientifically unique to each one of us. What widespread variety this should produce! As the Creator told us, we are all made equal under His dominion. This must mean simply that those individuals glorified by their community of surrounding are so as being symbolic to it. A person can occasionally protrude from a multitude as being better, these are those special people who are well-liked by the masses. It may be thought to more simply call this popularity. However, I do not believe that one has to be popular –in the sense of being well-known and out-going- in order to be well liked. Widespread appeal may lead to popularity, but is not the definitive of. It is natural I suppose, of our judgment to work in a way that allows us to differentiate between whether the things that make a person popular ore honest things, or whether they are truly comprised of a ruthless pettiness that is simply a cover to be played off of. In the midst of this case, it is sure that there are individuals who for whatever unique reasons, are people who are well-liked by most of the people they know. Besides these individually specific characteristics, I believe that there are common qualities which make a person likeable. Although it would seem these ought to be obvious and easily interpreted, it is of my interest to put these into words.
Respectively every individual desires to be accepted at least, but greater more to be treasured and thought significantly of. There is an inquiring divide of understanding blockading the person whom has a sort of glow amongst a group and the rest of their surrounding fellows, providing them the luminosity to stand out against. I believe that the person whom is sincere in their worth by which to be favored is so because of their common understanding they have of their subjects, in general. They recognize the position of the admirer. A trend I also find among those people liked in society, is their boldness and leadership, or sometimes activism. Often times their broad view on things around them provide them with good judgment and especially if this is utilized in modesty after other attributes. A dependent of this is self-confidence. Although it is dependent, it can often be the founding internal characteristic of a quality person. When you consider someone you like as a person, do they not like themselves? This is very important that they at least act as thought they do -with integrity- for a person who does not like them self cannot possibly be liked by others. Self-confidence gives one reign over an aura about themselves which allows others to be comfortable around them, and if done humbly –which is vital- they will not only be appeased to, but also respected and looked up to. In addition to this, is a characteristic which has a slightly more concrete affect. That is the affect of laughter. Humorous people lighten the atmosphere of presence and literally cause the emanation of adrenaline. This is involved with natural addiction, which is tricky. If one has the ability to be funny, then people will almost automatically and inevitably be attracted.
Along with keeping blithe in aloof situations, the grace to remain neutral in times of extremity is another notable characteristic in the ideal person. Neutrality works towards character in a multitude of ways because it is in opposition to moodiness, which speaks for itself. When a person is able to consider both halves of a situation, they will always have someone in favor of them. If they abide with distinct opinion, they know at what magnitude and in what situation to reveal it so as not to stereotype themselves and limit their agreeableness.
Lastly, with all of these attributes accounted for, should follow the most obvious of all of these which is kindness. Some of these other qualities, such as humor specifically may be more God-given than others. However, we all have the ability to be kind and this –although maybe not superior on its own- is the most essential of them all. It is interesting to me to evaluate what we will all do with our characteristics if based around compassion and caringness. It seems that presentation in itself is all that is necessary, for any one person fit this ideology of “a well-liked person”.
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